SIGNS TO KNOW YOU'RE DATING A BOI, NOT A MAN... (please read)

**AMBITION=> While its true that young guys tend to lack focus, A Guy should still have an idea of what he wants
to become, and where he wants to go in life, and where he would hope to be in d next 5 to 10years.. If d guy you are dating has no ambition, no plans, and all he does is Play Play Play all day long, then you're
dating a Boi, and not a man..

**FEELING LIKE HIS MOM=> If HE never takes up Initiatives and does what he is
supposed to do as a Man, while you're constantly helping
him, or yelling at him to take charge, or take Responsibility of situations, then he is a Boi not a man..

**NOT CARING ABOUT SEX CONSEQUENCES=>
No doubt, In relationships, SEX happens, and its up to both parties to responsibly do their parts Together to ensure that they play Safe on it.. A Guy should always make sure that he has a Condom with him, and not simply leave it to his Lady to sort it out by asking for it Or knowing when to pull him out if he's about Cumming..
For, When a Man can take this basic precautions, his Lady would feel more confident &secure that He sure really does Care about her and both of their well being, aswell as their Future Pursuit.. Any Guy who just slots his Cucumber in ur HoneyPot without any Precautive measures (i.e Condom/ Withdrawal Method), without caring what d Consequences would be as She'd be d one to be so Pained to its risk, is nothing but a Boi!..

**JEALOUS &POSSESSIVE=> Many women find overly jealous Guys a real turnoff,, And sincerely, they are a huge TurnOff.. Just as it is with an Overly Jealous/ Possessive Lady.. If ur Guy is busy Monitoring ur every activities (Either on SocialNetwork, Outings, Calls recieved from Guy Friends) &he continues in this way without giving u any room to breathe, then he is a Boi & not a Man... Though, Ladies causes this themselves with their Foolish Acts of befriending every Guy for no other reason than being deemed as One with many Toasters, from d numerous Calls &chats they crave attentively for.. Which's unhealthy for a Relationship &a cause of most Guys jealousy.. So if u're lady here who does such, im sorry to say; U ARE A GIRL TOO!..

**DIRTY /MESSY &UNCONCERNED=> Lol! Some Guys dirty sha oo!, &dem no even send atall.. Both their Kitchen, Toilet, Clothes, Room, Shoes, would be Used Smelly that to properly fix them, na Big Problem..
Also litters of Beer Can's/ Wine Bottles!, Cigarettes &Weed leftovers!.. What kind of Laziness would we call this sef?.. D crazy thing about this is, would call u to come around in d name of "Baby! I miss U!, &before u know it, u're there doing d Laundry, Cleaning, Sweeping &Arranging like a Maid..
My dear ehn!, If your Guy has not Outgrown this
Phase, then u are simply dating a Boi!, while u're his Maid!..

**ALWAYS BROKE=> Hmmm! One thing as a Guy &a Friend i always ask ma GuyFriends is,,
"Guy!, Hope say u dey Save oo?", even when we must have Fun.. Because, A Person who saves, is a Person who has Plans in life..
Seriously, Most Guys tend to be broke for different irrelevant reasons.. Reasons of Drinking, Buy Buy, Too much Outing/Clubbing, Flirting with Prostitutes &so on..
They forget that; they must Overcome /Accomplish a lot in life before they can be financially secured to have any fun whatsover...
So ladies, if your
Guy doesnt even know how to manage his money, then he is a Boi and not a man..And if U urself dont know how to also manage his Income by always demanding for this &that, without looking ahead of d Relationship into having a Future,, then u are a Girl too!..

**LASHING OUT PERSONAL INSULTS DURING AN
ARGUMENT=> Indeed, we must always have arguments in Relationships.. But, If u're a Man & u must argue with ur Lady on certain discomforting issues, then argue like a Man, and stick to d facts.. Ladies, If ur Guy can never stick to d main source of whatever arguments (Issues) u both have and instead rains personal attacks on u
in-order to Win u by hurting u emotionally with these Personal insults (i.e ur life, Family), Well i must tell u d truth,,…he's confirmed a Boi &No Man at all..

**TEMPER/ ANGER MISMANAGEMENT=>Not Until a Man accepts that sometimes he will not always get things done his way with a Lady, will there be disappointments
along d way... For When he's in a Relationship, he should be ready to accept that his Lady might want to do something a little differently or completely different from his way of doing things.. She
might even totally make some big and obviously preventable mistakes.. D point of this is that, how a
Guy handles his Lady's deeds, will say a lot about him.. Indeed, ladies who dates such highly tempered Guys, tends to feel soo insecure, scared &Controlled by them.. Which thy'd wish an Escape from; if opportuned..

**FLIRTS WITH LOTS OF LADIES=> Hmmm! Who says Guys dont Flirt?..
Yes we do, but NOT ALL!.. If we are handsome, intelligent, classy & mostly, Financially Ok,, We would like to be noticed for it, as we like d validation/Falls from others that we may be doing something right even when such Exposure isnt right (While in a Relationship)..
And ofcourse, there are SOME guys that goes d extra mile just to be noticed constantly flirting with women.. This goes to hows that he lacks stability, & d ability to commit to something contently..
Sincerely, This type is not a man, but a boy...

Now ladies; Can u relate this to any experience u've had or currently having?..

Goodmorning!